2-Day-Couples Experiential-Live Clinical Demonstrations with Real Couples featuring Terry Real – Terry Real

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World-renowned couple’s therapist, Terry Real, worked live and intensively for two days with a group of five couples who are at the brink of giving up. Follow along with Terry in this recording as he gets down to the most intimate issues. His work with the couples is deep, highly emotional, incisive, and often life-changing.

Using techniques drawn from the approach he created, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), each couple is led, with extraordinary quickness and precision, to their ‘next step‘ toward unlocking their fullest potential. RLT leverages the concept of “relational living” to help people address relational and psychological health in relationships.

This model has helped thousands of therapists get faster and more effective results for their clients.

It can be quite detrimental to let therapy drag on. RLT allows you to go deep, understand quickly the negative patterns in the relationship, and help clients make quick and substantive changes.

Are you ready to take your couples therapy to an entirely new level?

How it Works:

Each couple will introduce themselves, name their issues and identify their goals or wishes for the two-day treatment. Terry will work with each couple, talking through their issues, articulating where the couple is stuck and where this relationship road block comes from.

Watch and learn how Terry performs initial data gathering leading to a rich, precise, and relational diagnosis and gains leverage by empowering a disempowered partner. Terry will demonstrate powerful, life-changing strategies to help the couple move forward, delve into deep trauma work, and actively teach new relational skills.

Toward the end of each day of the recording, the couples are excused and you will be able to watch an in-depth debrief with Terry from what you just witnessed, and hear audience questions, observations, and feelings.

1. Articulate how to move past “he said/she said” to a nuanced and comprehensive relational diagnosis.
2. Construct how to empower the enabling partner in couples where there’s a power differential.
3. Detect how gender issues impact the couple.
4. Develop strategies to gain and use leverage, motivating each partner to move beyond his or her comfort zone.
5. Assess and deal with “preconditions for change,” such as addiction, untreated psychiatric disorders, and violent or sexual acting out.
6. Devise how to help both partners deal with infidelity, moving beyond the conventional victim/perpetrator model.
7. Plan how to handle the issue of secrets in couples therapy.
8. Develop anger management strategies for minimizing rage within couples therapy.
9. Collaborate how to join the couple through the truth, forming an alliance with difficult clients using the art empathic confrontation.
10. Use techniques to move from the present difficulty to early childhood experience.
11. Take part of how to introduce and perform deep trauma work in the couple’s context.
12. Communicate how to introduce and teach new relational skills to couples like empathy, vulnerability, and accountability.

Assess the Relationship

• Strategies for data gathering
• Diagnose the presenting problem
• Each partner’s reality

Use Leverage in Therapy

• Strategies to gain leverage
• Strategies to use leverage
• Motivate each partner to go beyond comfort zone

Power and Control within the Couple

• Assess for power differential
• Empower the enabling partner
• Gender issues and their impact

Strategies to Assess and Treat Obstacles

• Preconditions for change
• Addiction
• Untreated psychiatric disorders
• Anger
• Violence/sexual abuse

Infidelity, Secrets & Lost Passion

• Strategies for each person to move on from infidelity
• Go beyond the perpetrator/victim model
• Skills to deal with secrets in the relationship
• Reinvigorate passion into the relationship

Strategies to Move Couples Forward

• Make their realities collide
• Stance/stance/dance
• Use the relational grid
• Empower the latent
• Reconnect the blatant
• Minimize rage
• Gain leverage
• Join through the truth
• Effective treatment through play and imagination

Deep Trauma Work and Healing in Couples

• Family of origin resonance & multigenerational legacies
• Heal inner child parts
• Tri-part system of the psych: functional adult, wounded child, and adaptive child
• Empower functional adult to re-parent the wounded and adapted child parts

Teach Relational Skills

• Empathy
• Vulnerability
• Accountability