How to Demolish Your Deepest Insecurities Using Honesty (21 Convention) – David Tian

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This is the full video of my talk at the 21 Convention in Melbourne last year. I had a lot of fun meeting some wonderful people, including the organiser, Anthony Johnson, and the MC, Steve Mayeda, as well as many others. A big “Thank You” to Anthony, Steve, and the team for their gracious invitation!

The original title of the talk was, “Honesty as the Cornerstone of Attraction.” I think that title still best encapsulates the content of the talk, but an attendee wrote in and said that as a result of my talk, he learned how to demolish his deepest insecurities, and I thought that’d be a catchier title.

This is the outline I gave out as a hand-out. It should come in handy as you watch the video.

OUTLINE

1. Inner

Psychological Archaeology

• Use R&R (Reflection and Reframing) to overcome Limiting Beliefs (LB)
• LB => True or False
• If False, then Reflect, Research, and Condition
• If True, then can you change it? Yes or No?
• If Yes, change it!
• If No, then Reframe, Research, and Condition

2. Outer

A=S+H

Being Attractive = Emotional Strength + Honest

Cyclical Process of a) becoming strong and b) expressing yourself honestly

Former accomplished through repeated attempts at the latter

“Being yourself ” requires that you first “know yourself ”

Honesty is necessary for…

a) Coming to terms with all your current weaknesses

b) Discovering and deciding who you really want to be

You feel inside when something’s off

Genuine “Game”

Know Thyself => What emotions are you feeling and why?

Be comfortable and content with your flaws

Admit to yourself and others